Monday, March 3, 2014

7 (Yes, 7) Types of Women in College



7 Types of Women in College


I honestly only wanted to do the 5 types of men you meet in college. Putting women into categories is a challenge. Why? Because women are not as simple, but if you have anything to contribute, feel free to leave a comment.
THE ACHIEVER

There is always that one girl that goes above and beyond in class. Does all the extra credit and assignments. Always raises her hand and knows the answer to every single question. Don't you hate this chick? Just kidding! Most achiever girls can be a little snobby but are too down to earth to hate. This is the girl who truly has the potential to be a star. She is educated, articulate, AMBITIOUS, and career oriented. She is very practical and has a GREAT head on her own shoulders. A future lawyer, doctor, engineer, journalist, or whatever her major is, you can just tell by how she walks in a room she will grow to be the Queen Bee. Socially, most achiever girls tend to be low key but involved in many activities. President of organizations, clubs, student government, or even just that smart girl with a 4.0 that is not involved in anything but still has her ish together, achiever girls are great girls to be friends with or for any guy to have as a girlfriend. There maybe one downside to their greatness. Some Achievers can have a case of the “know it all” syndrome.  So if they don't see you as on their level or view you as articulate, they may subconsciously condescend you. 

  THE SOCIALITE


Don't we all know that one girl who is known of but not known about? You know her name, how she looks, but only a few people know about her. She is gorgeous, dresses in the hottest outfits and always looks top notch and is one of the baddest females on campus. There are a good amount of girls that fall into this category. The socialite. The socialite girl is the one who carries herself literally like a socialite. An on campus celebrity. She is known, but not too known. A socialite can possibly a sorority girl or if not she is that loner girl that keeps her circle EXCLUSIVE. Socialite women can be quality women, they invest their money into their looks, education, and keeping themselves up. The are SELF SUFFICIENT (they don't need) rather than INDEPENDENT (to not want). To give an example, they are sufficient as in they don't NEED anyone, but they do want company here and there. They don't NEED a man with money, but they may want a boyfriend that's a baller. These women usually know their worth as an attractive, high maintenance woman. Some may have a conceited attitude or demeanor, but are usually decent people. A down side to a socialite woman can be that some have superficial outlooks when it comes to their friends. They may only want to have friends that have a certain look or that they think are just as attractive as them. Relationship wise, many want a man that can afford their lifestyle. Consistent dates, consistent phone calls, can provide for them financially.


THE SORORITY GIRL

The down to earth and beautiful Deltas, the pretty and ladylike AKAs, the cool Zetas, and the real Rhos, the sorority girls are sisters for a lifetime. Sorority women have a strong belief in sisterhood, but to break it down, there are two types of sorority girls that have been observed. The true sister and the fake sister. The true sister LOVES her sorority and the ENTIRE ESSENSE of being involved in it. She lives, sleeps, and breathes it. She is involved in many of the projects, meetings, and anything that the sorority is going to be involved in. She is dedicated. She has her sisters backs no matter WHAT. Then there is the fake sister. She joined because she liked the stereotype and the IDEA of being in a sorority than actually being in it. After she crossed she didn't give a care. She wears the paraphernalia and takes great pride in letting everyone know what she is. Deep down, she knows that if it wasn't for the colors, the PARAPHERNALIA, the strolling and the STATUS, she wouldn't be involved.

THE PLAIN JANE


The female equivalent of the John Doe. Let's start with the positive, there's the cool girl. She's the type of girl that's simply enjoying her college experience. She can look anyway. She could be a pretty as a Socialite, average looking, or maybe just straight out hit, but either way she is the girl that you usually see everywhere just talking with her girls, hanging with her boyfriend, going to work, going to practice just doing her. Laid back, cool, and honestly, what the majority of college girls really ARE. The plain Jane goes to class, hangs with her friend(s), goes to parties here and there, and lives the college life. Not trying to impress anyone, she usually dresses casual and keeps herself simple. She might not have a 3.8, but she's definitely not failing. She may not be the baddest on campus, but she's far from ugly, and she may not be in a sorority, but she's not dependent on any other woman. She got hers. Probably one of the best females to meet and for most men to snatch up, since they tend to be the most loyal.  As much as I don't want to bring in this sub-category, I will because they are there.  The second type of plain Jane is the lame.  Lame not because she pretends to be something she's not, but because of her energy.  She's the girl that NEVER goes out, is ALWAYS in her room and gives off an anti-social energy of loneliness, depression, and isolation.  She's not a bad person, but towards her roommates and few friends, she gives off a negative vibe.  She values her solitude but since she STAYS in the room, her roommate probably can't get the personal time she might want.  But the routine of the lame, plain Jane is like Kendrick Lamar's Swimming Pool's chorus.  Wake up, ROOM, Eat, ROOM, Class, ROOM, Homework, ROOM.  This girl is like a Vampire, outside of class she never leaves to see daylight! LOL
THE PROMISCOUS GIRL



The girl that banged half the campus. Only rolls with dudes. Usually unashamed promiscuous girl! We all know that one girl that is known as the ho, slut, “thot”, “stragg”, or even to keep it old school, a “skeezer”. Although there are many that are in denial,  many promiscuous women in college can be unashamed of their sexual conquest and tend to own their actions. Not giving a f**k what anyone thinks about them, they do what they want when they want, being confident and some even arrogant about what they do. Can't really hurt a promiscuous girl who doesn't care what you think. While on the other hand, many promiscuous women can be very naive and confused to the game that many men run on them. There are a dosage of promiscuous girls who want the intimacy of a man just as much as the pleasure, and could be trying to find themselves through the men they have sex with because they feel a lack of completion. Often times people tend to use God to JUDGE or EXPLOIT these women rather then use God to provide the guidance, understanding, and direction that these women truly need. Either way, weather the promiscuous girl is giving out her goodies for free or getting paid for sexual acts, you might want to give her time to get out of the stage she is in before you give her clarity.

THE PARTY GIRL


Always down to hit the club and dance like a stripper, the party girl stays turnt up with a bottle or two in her room. Cute and charming, the party girl tends to FLOOD Instagram and twitter time lines. There is nothing wrong with wanting to go out to parties and have fun. It's college, she's young, works hard and wants to play harder. Unless she rolls with her roommate to parties, her roommate probably can't stand her ass. Why? The party girl usually brings different people in the room frequently and always has music booming through the hall. The only problem with being a party girl is if she puts partying, popularity, and fun before studying. Many girls who party often sometimes do so to make up for lost times of fun. In high school, she could have possibly been sheltered and didn't get the opportunity to go out to much. She might feel a need to fill avoid with going to parties and kickbacks to get either drunk or high. Some might simply like to dance and enjoy the loud music. However, party girls tend to be cute, fun, and easy to get along with with a very high social intelligence. As long as the party girl can find balance between fun and studies, she'll be good in the long run.

THE RATCHET



Put in two cups of Nicki Minaj, a tablespoon of Nene, a dose of K. Michelle and a dash of ghetto boom! You have yourself a ratchet! The ratchet is the girl that truly does not give a f**k about what anyone thinks about her. With that being said, we now know why she would come to class wearing her hair bonnet or walk around on campus half of her weave out. Ratchets can look anyway but many of them have their own agenda on why they choose to attend college.  Some go for the experience, some because their parents put them on, some just want the refund check while others desire a better life.  So let's get to the basics, their are two type of ratchets.  The Diamond in the Rough and Rhinestone.  The diamond in the rough ratchet is the ratchet that has the ability to upgrade to an achiever if she chooses to.  Many diamond in the roughs have a great deal of street smarts but do not have the educational background or the class to reach their goal.  Yet unlike the ratchets that never left the hood and neglect education, the diamond in the rough chooses to work hard and transform into the executive she strives to be.  Yes, she may be on the ratchet side now, but soon she will shine brighter than any diamond that Rihanna would sing about.  On the flipside, the Ratchet Rhinestone is ratchet because she thinks it's cute or has a desire to fit in with the so called, "real" girls.  She may have had a good background, great education and beautiful life story that the Diamonds in the Rough wish they would of had, but instead of embracing the burb life, they go out their way to prove their about "that" life.  Some rhinestone ratchets that are not from a good background that embrace ignorance just simply do not know better. They believe that they do not need education or ambition, as long as you have, "the streets".  Not seeing much of the world, they may have "street smarts" but lack education, culture, professional and diverse social skills.  Usually gone after their first sememster or year in college, it takes a few knocks on the head to get the Ratchet Rhinestone to transform into a solid diamond.


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